We are mental health professionals who understand that our
mandate is to help individuals, couples, and families identify their
personal problems, find solutions or ways of coping, and thereby learn
to enter into deeper relationship with others and God as well as with
themselves. Our task is to understand clients within their context, to
listen empathically, to establish specific goals to move toward, to
support and encourage them, to provide feedback and challenge them, to
motivate them to make important changes in the ways they think, feel
and act, and to help them make choices and take responsibility for the
results. To elaborate further, the goal of therapy is to foster healing
of personal lives and relationships. The process might involve an
exploration of the past and personal memories in order to determine bow
the present and future are being affected. It might include teaching
interpersonal and communication skills, vocational guidance or dream
work. A discussion of spiritual matters and the religious meaning of
personal problems and possible solutions can also foster the desired
healing.
The process of therapy usually begins with an initial
session at the end of which all parties involved agree to meet again or
terminate. Clients might choose to seek another mental health
professional or we might refer a client to a colleague or to another
professional if we determine that the problems identified are outside
our areas of expertise. If all parties agree to continue, then they
usually contract to meet another four to six sessions in order to
further explore problems and their solutions. At the conclusion of this
contract the client and therapist evaluate what has been accomplished
and make decisions about whether to proceed, and if so, for how long.
Therapy is goal-focused, though not necessarily short-term.